WORD!!!

ahahha. thanks deks, for this vid. dope dope dope. ahhh i love being a woman.

Allan Cohen

On my way back home from Seattle in January of this year, I had mad time to kill in the airport. I stopped in at Borders (genius idea, by the way, to have a bookstore in the airport). I kept looking around for books and since the majority of the time that I was in Seattle, the topic of dating and relationships arose quite frequently. I found the book Don't Get Lucky, Get SMART: Why your love life sucks and what you can do about it by Allan Cohen. I don't want to come off as needing a self-help book but I did find it interesting on what it had in store. I read a few chapters and decided to buy it. Before I boarded my flight, I read more than half of the book already. There goes my money, but I guess that's a good thing that it was a book I couldn't stop reading. Anyways, I barely cracked it open again and in a chapter it said:

-Don't curse the jerks for wasting your time. Instead, bless them for motivating you to move ahead.
-You don't need to quit dating or relationships because you had a bad experience. Use the experience to finetune and eliminate the parts that didn't work so that you'll be ready for the next time around.
-Make a "Required" and "Preferred" list and stick to it.
-Every dating experience falls into two categories: 1) to be enjoyed 2)to be learned from.
-Make space for someone who can meet you with a whole heart.



I'm sure the things he writes in this book are things that we know, but for those who don't know, you SHOULD know. I'm just glad there was actually someone who wrote a book about it. Check it out if you're bored at Borders or Barnes & Noble. And, if you see Fonzworth Bentley's book anywhere, please direct me to it.

Snapple gets sexy...

For my Advertising Media Planning class, the product that my group is focusing on is Snapple.

Ooooo wee, creative juices FLOWING! (clap hands together) DO WORK, homeskillet! (word to Juno)

Happy Valentine's Day!

Uncle Brando says to get your cupcake on with this Valentine's Mix. Thanks fam.

1. Tony Toni Tone - Just me & you
2. Troop - I will always love you
3. Anquette - I will always be there for you
4. Monica - Why I love you so much
5. Puff Johnson - Forever more
6. Bobby Brown - Rock Witcha
7. Chris Deburgh - Lady in red
8. Klymaxx - Id still say yes
9. The Jets - Same love
10. Ben B. Hard - Special
11. Pussycat Dolls - Stick wid u
12. Jasmine Guy - Just wanna hold u
13. S.O.S. Band - Tell me if you still care
14. Bow Wow/Ciara - Like you
15. Doc Box & B. Fresh - Slow Love
16. Kwame - Sweet thing
17. Roger - I wanna be your man
18. Sade - By your side (Neptunes remix)
19. Faith Evans - I love you
20. The Isley Bros. Between the sheets
21. The Deele - Two Occasions
22. Keith Sweat - Twisted
23. Paula Abdul - Rush Rush
24. Force MD's - Love is a house
25. Ne-Yo/ Candice Jones - Sexy Love
26. Monet - Leave the lights on

the signs along the way...

so i bought this book entitled The Everything Love Signs Book by Jenni Kosarin. Straight to the point. How to seduce a prospect based on astrological characteristics. Silly, but interesting.

"How do you get Gemini's attention?
In the beginning, don't flirt too much. Flirting indicates you're interested. In Gemini's, mind, she's already conquered you. Show her you can have a good conversation and talk to others. If she wants you, she'll find you and make her play."

the secret's out. damn.

Si, se puede!

thanks sheen, for linking me.